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June 24, 1934 - March 27, 2022

Mass of Christian Burial: 10:00 a.m. Friday, April 1 at St. Mary’s Catholic Church in Tracy

Visitation: 4:00-7:00 p.m. Thursday, March 31 at Walnut Grove Funeral Home

Prayer Service & Rosary: 7:00 p.m. Thursday at the funeral home

Funeral Home Walnut Grove Funeral Home

Church St. Mary’s Catholic Church

Dorothy Lou Matter, age 87 of Walnut Grove, passed away peacefully into the arms of her Lord Sunday, March 27, 2022 at her home surrounded by family.  Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 10:00 a.m. Friday, April 1, 2022 at St. Mary’s Catholic Church in Tracy.  Visitation will be 4:00-7:00 p.m. Thursday, March 31 at Walnut Grove Funeral Home with a prayer service and Rosary at 7:00 p.m.  Visitation will continue one hour prior to the service at church on Friday.  Private family burial will be held at Calvary Catholic Cemetery in Walnut Grove at a later time.  Memorials preferred to St. Paul’s Monastery 2675 Benet Rd St. Paul, MN 55109-4808 or Carris-Health-Redwood Hospice 1110 E Bridge ST Redwood Falls, MN 56283.  

Dorothy Lou (Matter) De Smith was born on June 24, 1934 to August and Luverna (Meyer) Matter on the family farm in Sundown Township, Minnesota.  Her early education took place at St. Raphael's Catholic School in Springfield, Minnesota.  She attended school there until 1945, when the family moved to Walnut Grove.  Dorothy graduated from Walnut Grove High School in 1952.  From there, she attended Johnson's Academy of Beauty Culture in Mankato in order to become a hairdresser.  She returned to Walnut Grove in 1953 and began working at Walt's Beauty Shop.  On August 18, 1956, Dorothy Matter was united in marriage to Edward A. DeSmith at St. Paul's Catholic Church in Walnut Grove.  This couple was blessed with seven children.  Dorothy was a part of many clubs and organizations throughout her life.  At St. Paul's Catholic Church, she was a part of the Confraternity of Christian Doctrine (CCD) women's group, served as a Catechism Teacher, selected music for mass, weaved palms for Palm Sunday Masses, and assisted in serving at various church functions.  She received the Bishop's Medal of Service for her work with the churches of the Diocese of New Ulm.  As her children grew, Dorothy was involved with the North Hero All Stars 4-H chapter.  She served as a 4-H leader for a number of years.  She was involved with the extension group and continued to teach and learn.  She worked with a number of other community members in welcoming members of the Hmong community to Walnut Grove.  She enjoyed getting together with friends and playing cards.  Dorothy enjoyed creating things.  Her hands were kept busy through knitting, crocheting, quilting and embroidery.  She was known for her knitted dishcloths and embroidered dish towels.  She especially enjoyed activities that involved being outdoors.  Each year, she spent countless hours in her flower and vegetable gardens.  She would use much of her own produce in her cooking and canning.  Friends and family were often rewarded with the fruits of her labor in the form of jams, jellies, pickles and other treats.  Family played a large role in Dorothy’s life.  She always took time to spend with those she loved.  One way that she spent time with her grandchildren was by teaching them crafts and skills.  Dorothy enjoyed playing games with her family.  She especially enjoyed playing various card games and dominoes.  The family table was always ready to serve.  She was an excellent cook.  You never left her house hungry for love or food.  She will be missed by many.

Dorothy is survived by her children: Jim (Jane) De Smith, Ann (Paul) Schommer, Dale (Angie) De Smith, and Steve (Janelle) De Smith; daughters-in-law: Jean De Smith and Linda De Smith; grandchildren: Miranda (Mick) Strand, David & Mark De Smith, Elizabeth (Justin) Gaedke, Sasha (Kyle) Dapron,  Hannah De Smith, Andrew (Teri) De Smith, Megan (Bryce) Cooper, Daniel, Kelsey & Luke De Smith and Melinda, Erik & Cole De Smith; great grandchildren: Bryson Strand, Raiden & Aliella Gaedke, Kalesia, Elijah & Miles Dapron and Ellie & RoAne De Smith; and sibling Sister Virginia Matter OSB.  She is preceded in death by her parents August & Luverna Matter, husband Edward De Smith, children: Michael, Gregg and Paul, grandchildren: Carissa De Smith & Joshua Schommer, and siblings: Raymond (June) Matter & Maryann (Albert) Vogel.

 

 

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You will be sorely missed Auntie you were the very best.

Posted by Brian Matter on March 31, 2022

Dear DeSmith Family, Our deepest condolences as you mourn, remember, and celebrate Dorothy’s life. I always loved her laugh, twinkling eyes and positive attitude!! Fourth of July will always be a fond childhood memory!! Sorry we are unable to be there. We are on vacation in Utah. Big hugs to all of you from us!!💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗 Julie & Roger Prechel

Posted by Julie Landkammer Prechel on March 31, 2022

So sorry to hear of Dorothy's passing. Sending much love to the family.

Posted by Lisa Jemming on March 29, 2022

It was my pleasure to meet Dorothy a number of times when I was included in your family gatherings. She was the well loved matriarch of the DeSmith family. Her kindness and gentle ways touched many. My deepest sympathies go out to all of you. She will be remembered always.

Posted by lyn manuel erickson on March 29, 2022

My sincere sympathies to the entire DeSmith family- your mom, grandmother ...Dorothy was a wonderful lady! May the good memories help during this tough time. Dan Peterson Walnut Grove

Posted by Dan Peterson on March 28, 2022

Rest in peace, my beloved Auntie!! You were a beautiful-beyond-measure thread in the fabric of our family, and I will miss you so! I will be forever grateful for your gifts of unwavering love, your wisdom, your humor, your incredible database of family history and stories, your love of cooking and baking and my favorite recipe cards that say "from Aunt Dorothy" and, last but not least, my treasured cousins and friends-for-life. One of my favorite Aunt Dorothy stories happened on a Sunday morning, on our way to Mass. There were 9 of us packed into the station wagon... and 10-ish-year-old me had the privilege of riding in the front between Aunt Dorothy and Uncle Ed. All of a sudden, Aunt Dorothy squawks "YOUR EARS!!!?!?!?" and whips out her Kleenex for an epic spit-ear-cleaning that I'll NEVER forget. And I've never forgotten to clean my ears since... My other favorite memory is the gift of beautiful love and kindness and respect that my beloved Aunts and Daddy shared between them, always and forever, no matter the geographical distances between them and their lives. Our favorite photos at any family event were the ones that held the four of them together. Eternal rest grant unto her, O Lord. May your Perpetual Light shine upon her. May her soul and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace.

Posted by Kathleen Matter on March 28, 2022

My condolences to the entire DeSmith family. Dorothy was a lovely, kind woman. I have fond memories of both Ed and she at Mass and church activities. I know you will all miss her sweet spirit. Maureen Wiecks

Posted by Maureen Wiecks on March 28, 2022

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